Family Law Mediator

As a recipient of the trials and tribulations, one encounters in a divorce, I should know.  As a divorce attorney, I am keenly aware of the time, money, and emotional resources expended on the “fight” in the relationship break-up or divorce.  It is a treacherous journey, filled with many unknown events and facts.  There is a solution to you throwing AWAY your money, your time, and your emotional well-being.  It is MEDIATION!

Mediation is nothing new to society, but in the world of constant lawsuits, it helps unravel and see things from an entirely different perspective.  Like lawsuits, divorces cost money, cost time, and rob you of your persona.  Mediation is a process where litigants meet with me to discuss their current legal battle in their matrimonial or family law dispute.  The purpose is not to beat each other up, but rather, as a team, join forces to resolve the immediate dispute in a safe environment that eventually results in resolving your dispute, in an efficient and financially safe environment.  

The benefits of mediation are many if you truly want to save your money and your time.  But, if you’d rather give your divorce or family law lawyer your money, then that’s fine too.  But understand, giving away financial resources and deciding to battle, in lieu of mediation is foolish since your lawyer will gladly bank your money.  Why pay a lawyer more than what your case is worth, is the million dollar question, except we are all too aware of pride and trying to outdo your spouse or significant other.  This baffling concept is pure nonsense, when you have the professional resources to guide both to a resolution that eventually will be the same or similar to what may happen in a courtroom, except, you’ve paid someone thousands of dollars, that could have been saved, except for you carrying around your spiteful pride.  Does that make any sense?  It sure does not!   

We know that the potential outcome in your matrimonial or family law case is closure.  Each of you goes into your separate worlds, conditioned on financial payments and of course, custody and parenting time.  Your headache can be significantly reduced using me as your mediator.  Taking control of the outcome of your case is preferred over some person in a black robe making financial and custody decisions for you, that you may never like.  A neutral mediator will help each of you realize a suitable and beneficial settlement, without having a high-pressure environment, loss of sleep, and worse, walking around in despair and disdain toward your former partner and toward the rest of society.  When in a courtroom, everyone knows your dirty laundry, including the judge, court staff, and everyone else present.  The alternative is mediation in a private setting where your family life and financial details are kept from public view.  

Imagine the money each of you will save and the positive use each of you now will have, in saving thousands of dollars.  Maybe, you’ll invest or maybe, take a sweet vacation to celebrate overcoming your hurdle.  The choice to save resources is always yours.  Choose wisely!